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I see many patients who have failed IVF cycles in other clinics. In order to improve their chances of success, I ask them basic questions about their earlier cycle: How many follicles did you grow ? How many eggs were retrieved ? What was your embryo quality ? Surprisingly, many are quite clueless , and know very little about the medical details of their treatment cycle, because " my doctor did not tell me anything " ! They are often upset and angry- and resentful that their doctor did not share more information with them.

After realising how much their doctor has kept them in the dark, they conclude that they made a mistake in the doctor they selected. They feel cheated and start believing that they can no longer trust any doctor.

One of the reasons for their bad choice is because they did not do any research or homework before starting their IVF treatment. Many people just go to the nearest IVF clinic - or just blindly follow their family doctor's advise.

This is not a happy situation, and ends up hurting both good doctors and patients. It's especially tragic when IVF patients who have had a bad experience refuse to try another doctor, because they then lose the opportunity to take treatment with a good doctor !

When you make a mistake, you should learn from it; forgive yourself; and move on. I tell all my patients - It's OK to make a mistake once - just make sure you don't make it again !